Yet I would argue that while some geographies of genderlessness or more appropriately gender fluidity are evident in the very convincing instances that Oy
ěw
ùm
í centres, in conversation with Nigerian anthropologist, Ifi Amadiume and Ghanaian academic, Kwesi Yankah, there was nonetheless an overarching phallus signification, in the Jacques Lacanian sense. The concept of a body with a phallus was a privileged signifier that stabilized discourse within a Yor
ùb
á context where the body without the phallus was perceived as not whole—the only marginally stabilizing factors for women being class and seniority. In the specific context of my paternal family in Esa-Oke, in-marrying wives were called ‘eru‘, meaning slaves, lending insights into traditions of rigid patriarchal dominance After years of silencing and within the tensions and limits of wifehood, oral traditions passed through generations of wives reveal that a kitchen performance called er
é ob
ìnrin-il
é began that gradually refuted the subject-object relations of the Faniyi men and their wives, beginning a hundred years ago and continuing till date. Using music and performance as channels of economic empowerment, radical care, and joy, they refused to negotiate their presence but insisted on it and dictated how they were remembered. To be part of that legacy of women refusing ‘subhumaness’ makes me proud beyond measure, and makes me recall the quote, ‘If they tell you, you are too feminist, show them who your mothers were.’ Othering at the level of language inevitably leads to othering at a deeper emotional level, and while Yor
ùb
ás might not do gender insofar as situationally contingent references and non-gendered pronouns, Yor
ùb
á did gender in its positioning
ọk
ọ as superior to
ìy
àw
ó, where even female
ọk
ọ is superior to female
ìy
àw
ó, and reinforced the idea of woman as lacking or incomplete compared to man. What made Yor
ùb
á the hyper-gendered culture and language it is today is expressed in Oy
ěw
ùm
í’s arguments: coloniality. The imposition of Victorian patriarchy in a system where women nonetheless found visible spaces to create alternative conceptions of self despite the privilege and authority assigned to men, meant that these alternative geographies were catastrophically disrupted. Men were assigned apical privilege even though they were read as animals, thus effectively removing African women from the political category of humanness and womanhood. It is at this intersection that African feminist and literary scholar,
Molara Ogundipe, would theorize the mountains inhibiting women in Africa as colonial oppression, traditional/cultural oppression, backwardness, men, colour/race, and herself. On the notion of sexuality, she tacitly wrote: ‘Africa does not know its sexuality.’
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