‘I’m Working on Myself’
Actress and author of Nearly All the Men in Lagos are Mad, Damilare Kuku, thinks criticism is a positive thing: ‘I’m good with criticism because I think it helps you understand what people want and makes you better.’
By Damilare Kuku
June 10, 2022
Damilare Kuku. OJIMA ABALAKA.
First Draft is our interview column, featuring authors and other prominent figures on books, reading, and writing.
Our questions are italicized.
What books or kinds of books did you read growing up?
I think the first book I read was the Bible. I hadn’t read anything else consciously until I started reading the Bible. I then progressed to reading Enid Blyton’s novels, which I read a lot of. I remember that whenever I did well in something at school, my mom would reward me with another Enid Blyton book, because she knew that I was devouring them at an alarming rate.
Gradually, I also progressed into African fiction as I discovered authors like Chinua Achebe, Ngũgĩ wa Thiong’o, and Nawal El Saadawi. My mom had this library that I would just go into and not come out for a very long time. So, I read all kinds of books, but illustrated Bible stories were the first ones I read that actually sunk in. We had these yellow books in school that were full of Bible stories with paintings, and those books, along with Enid Blyton’s novels, were some of the first ones that encouraged my interest in books because I started reading with pictures in my head.
If your life so far was a series of texts, which text (fiction or non-fiction) represents you at this moment?
I think the book I would say represents me at this moment in time, interestingly, would be my book,
Nearly All the Men in Lagos are Mad, because, you know, I keep running into mad people. It would be nice to just meet normal people.
How do you define ‘mad people’? What makes someone mad in Damilare Kuku’s world?
Madness in my world is a title I attach to behavioural patterns and just everything that represents anger, oppression, abuse, lack of empathy, lack of kindness; the list goes on.
For example, you are a mad person if you abuse human beings, whether men, women or children. You are a mad person if you hide bad behaviour under religion; you are a mad person if you take advantage of people; if you are a big company that signs creatives—artists, actors, writers, etc. and you tie them to contracts that have them in a cuckold and they are unable to do anything, you and the people that head that company—you are all mad.
You are a mad person if you can’t be upfront with a person about what you want in a relationship—so you string that person along for years and then ghost them or marry another person secretly, you are just mad. Oh yeah, you are also a mad person if you gaslight others and you are one of those whose motto is: ‘I can’t change, this is who I am’. No dear, you are just mad.
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